The Spirit of Pride- What is Pride in the Bible?

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A spirit of pride can definitely trip you up in many ways. Many times we don’t even realize we are being prideful or causing people to feel hurt or worse, to feel unwelcome. So let’s learn about the subject of pride in the Bible and see what it says about having a haughty spirit.

The Spirit of Pride – How High Are Your Gates?

As part of my daily Bible reading, I enjoy the Book of Proverbs.

It always gives me some little nugget of wisdom I need at just the right time and I repeat the book each month. On one particular day I came to chapter 17.

It never jumped out at me before but, this day, a verse in that chapter caught my attention and brought my focus to the importance of first impressions and pride.

It is Proverbs 17:19

He who loves sin loves strife.

One who builds a high gate invites destruction.

TLV

It was the second part of the verse that stood out to me. The person who “builds a high gate” or builds a high threshold or door in some other translations, seeks destruction (or invites injury). 

The Hebrew word for ‘raises’ here is “gābah” which, according to Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance means:

To be proud, arrogant.  The attitude of pride or arrogance.  Something that is “too high” and cannot be understood.

The Hebrew word for “door” (or “gate” or “threshold” depending on the translation) is “petach” and means:

Entrance, opening

Are You Showing a Haughty Spirit? – The Importance of First Impressions

Basically, this is saying we are not to make our “entrance”  too proud or arrogant or lofty.

What is our “entrance” or our “gate” when we meet someone? Our mouth!

Let’s look at Micah 7:5, which speaks of the lack of uprightness among mankind and is often referenced when looking at our verse:

“Don’t trust in your neighbor; don’t put confidence in a close friend;

shut the gates of your mouth even from [your wife], lying there with you in bed.

CJB

The same Hebrew word for “gates” here in Micah is used; petach! Guard the GATES of your mouth!

Let’s go back to the first part of Proverbs 17:19 which says:

He who loves sin loves strife

Someone who takes pleasure in arguments and strife is also the kind of person who sees themselves as loftier, more knowledgable and is more prideful than others. These people have a spirit of pride or a haughty spirit.

We have all met people who feel they are more educated in politics than we are, especially nowadays, haven’t we? 

They have a way of making others seem less intelligent and more ignorant than they are.

They can be condescending and judgmental because we don’t agree with their opinions, don’t know as much as they do (at least in their minds).

They love to get into debates, whether it be political or religious in nature and seem to just love to hear themselves speak.

This is the spirit of pride at its finest. 

So essentially this means that we should not make or give an impression of being proud or arrogant or it could cause injury.

In other words, speaking in a way that is condescending or patronizing or argumentative.

What does it mean by ‘injury’?

What is Pride in the Bible (and in the Pews)?

So let’s go back to our “gate” or “threshold” imagery. What happens when we have an entrance to our home that is too high?

This can cause someone to trip or fall, to stumble.

It means, when we meet someone or have an interaction with someone or when people see us in our daily walk, our pride or arrogance as a believer in Jesus could cause them to stumble and ultimately fall.

The importance of first impressions (or any impression for that matter) for a believer cannot be understated!

It could cause injury in the sense that we may be the only picture of Yeshua (the Hebrew name of Jesus) they ever see and if we behave in a way that shows a spirit of pride and arrogance or a self-righteous attitude and haughty spirit we could turn that person away, maybe permanently.

This is especially true if people come into contact with believers like this in church (or in shul if you are a Messianic Jew) for the first time.

If we try to look like we are all super-spiritual and act like “Sister Super Christian” (as Joyce Meyer likes to say) we could put a stumbling block in front of a new believer or a non-believer who feels like they can’t measure up.

I have sadly often heard people say that they think believers in Jesus are self-righteous, holier than thou, judgmental, etc.

People have walked out of churches never to return for this very reason.

People looked down their noses at them because of how they dressed, because they had tattoos because they weren’t part of the “right” social circles.

They judge people for what Bible translation they use or what worship songs they listen to. They look down their noses at people who don’t speak or act as they do.

They think if someone listens to this teacher or reads this person’s books that they are not as spiritually mature.

Here is a newsflash…maybe they are not! Maybe this is an opportunity for you to get to know them and potentially mentor them.

Maybe they are new to the faith and are hungry for the Word so they read everything they can get their hands on!

These instances are often caused by people erecting high gates or raising their doors to the point where people come away with impressions most of us wish they hadn’t.

These poor souls felt that church was more like a social club than a fellowship and a family.

How sad that these people came away from their interactions with people in the family of Yeshua carrying that impression, that injury to their very soul.

We just cannot overlook the importance of first impressions!

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Pride in the Bible – Bible Verses About the Spirit of Pride

Let’s see what the Word says in these verses about pride and a haughty spirit!

Your Spirit of Pride May Cause Another to Fall

If you are a believer in Jesus, you may be the only Bible someone ever reads. You show the world what Yeshua is all about!If your gates are too high you are going to cause someone to trip and stumble and potentially fall. This does not just apply to those who aren’t yet saved, you can cause a new believer to fall.

1 Timothy 4:11-16 says:

Insist on these things and teach them.

Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but become an example of the faithful—in speech, in conduct, in love, in faithfulness, and in purity. Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to encouragement, and to teaching. 

Do not neglect the spiritual gift within you, which was given to you through prophecy with the laying on of hands of the elders. Practice these things—be absorbed in them, so that your progress may be clear to all. 

Give attention to yourself and your teaching. Persevere in these things, for in doing so you will save yourself and those who hear you.

TLV

We are to set the example for the believers (and those seeking) in our conduct, faith, and in our purity. And in watching our life and our walk, we will save both ourselves and our hearers!

Are we setting an example or arguing doctrine? Are we showing love or disputing which translation someone uses? Are we showing the love of Jesus?

Let’s all lower our gates a little!

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