6 Powerful Ways to Give It to God and Find Peace – Let Go & Trust God’s Plan
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Feeling overwhelmed by life’s responsibilities? Between work, family, and personal challenges, it can feel impossible to let go. But the Bible calls us to trust and surrender, to give it to God. If you’ve ever struggled with anxiety or control, you’re not alone—and peace is possible when we truly surrender to God.
Read on to discover six powerful ways to give it to God and find peace through faith.
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What Does It Mean to Give It to God?
Surrendering control to God is a powerful spiritual practice rooted in trust. It’s about letting go of anxiety and control, and learning to trust God’s plan, even when it’s unclear. The Hebrew word for trust, bittachon (בִּטָּחוֹן), captures the essence of placing our confidence entirely in God.
It’s an act of letting go of our perceived control and allowing God to lead our lives. As King David expressed in Psalm 37:5:
To give it to God is to acknowledge that we are not the masters of our destiny; we trust in the One who is. This is not about passivity but active faith—trusting that God’s plans are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9) and believing that He is working all things for our good (Romans 8:28). It’s a daily decision to cast our burdens onto Him, as the Apostle Peter encourages us:
What Does True Surrender to God Look Like?
Surrendering to God goes beyond the idea of merely letting go. The Hebrew word hachna’ah (הַכְנָעָה) means submission or surrender, reflecting a heart posture of complete reliance on God. This surrender is not about defeat but about trusting God’s sovereignty and His perfect timing.
Yeshua (Jesus) modeled surrender in the Garden of Gethsemane, saying:
Surrendering to God is a daily, sometimes moment-by-moment choice to align our will with His.
A Personal Journey of Surrender
You might be thinking, “That’s easier said than done, Diane!” And you’d be right. Surrendering to God is incredibly challenging, especially when life feels out of control. I’ve been there myself.
A few years ago, my husband and I faced a difficult situation. We had moved for him to complete his doctorate, but everything started to unravel. Our daughter struggled to fit in at school, and we both felt uneasy in the new environment.
We knew it was time to move on, but making that happen was easier said than done.
My husband started applying for jobs all over the country. His career required us to be flexible about where we could live, and based on his experience, we assumed he’d quickly land something. But interview after interview, we faced disappointment. Every door seemed to close, and it felt like we were lost in a wilderness—confused and unsure of where God was leading us.
Then, one day, as my husband waited at the airport after yet another interview, he called me. His words gave me chills: “We’re going home!” He’d just been offered a job back home in Connecticut, a position we had basically written off.
It was a moment of clarity. Months before, I had prayed for a way to return home, but in the chaos, I had forgotten about that prayer.
I had already placed the situation in God’s hands but got so caught up in the struggle that I lost sight of that. When the door finally opened, I was reminded of the peace that comes from true surrender—faith in God’s plan, even when the path is unclear.
6 Powerful Ways to Let Go & Let God
Life is full of uncertainties, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the weight of our responsibilities, relationships, and personal struggles. However, God calls us to let go of the need to control every detail and trust Him with every aspect of our lives.
By surrendering our worries and placing our faith in His perfect plan, we open ourselves to His peace, guidance, and wisdom.
Below are six powerful ways you can begin to let go and give control to God, allowing Him to lead you to a place of peace and purpose.
1. Giving God Your Marriage
Marriage is a sacred covenant that reflects Messiah’s relationship with His people. However, even in this holy union, we often try to control the outcome, fearing what might happen if we don’t.
Why Prayer is Key in Surrendering Your Marriage
Surrendering your marriage to God begins with prayer—inviting Him into the heart of your relationship. Regularly lift your spouse and your marriage before the Lord, trusting Him to guide you both toward unity. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us:
How to Trust God with Marital Challenges
When challenges arise in your marriage, instead of striving to fix everything yourself, turn to God together in prayer. Trust that He is working behind the scenes and that His plans are for your good—even when the path seems uncertain.
By surrendering your marriage to God, you allow Him to be the foundation and guide, leading you both toward deeper love and understanding.
Reflection Question: How can you trust God more fully with your marriage today?
2. Giving God Your Day
Each day is a gift from God, but we often rush through it without pausing to acknowledge His presence. Starting your day by inviting God in can shift your perspective from chaos to peace.
Why Gratitude and Prayer Matter in the Morning
Begin each morning with gratitude and prayer. Thank God for the day ahead and ask for His guidance. As Psalm 143:8 reminds us:
How to Focus on God Throughout the Day
Throughout the day, take moments to pause and reflect on God’s presence. You can offer short prayers or meditate on scripture to refocus your mind and heart on Him. By intentionally inviting God into your daily routine, you open the door for His peace and wisdom to guide every task.
Reflection Question: What steps can you take tomorrow to start your day by giving it to God?
3. Giving God Your Children
As parents, we naturally want to protect and guide our children, but ultimately, they belong to God. Trusting Him with their lives means surrendering our fears and anxieties to Him.
Why Blessing Your Children Daily is Powerful
One practical way to surrender your children to God is through daily blessings and prayers. The Aaronic Blessing (Numbers 6:24-26) is a beautiful way to speak God’s favor over your children:
How to Trust God with Your Children’s Future
When worries arise about your children, remember that God loves them even more than you do. He has a plan for their lives, and your role is to guide them in His ways while trusting Him with the outcomes.
Reflection Question: How can you incorporate prayers and blessings into your daily routine with your children?
4. Giving God Your Home
Your home is a sanctuary—a place where God’s presence can dwell. To give your home to God is to dedicate it as a space of peace and spiritual growth.
How to Pray Over Your Home
One way to give God your home is to pray over it, room by room, asking for His protection and blessing. Invite God’s presence to fill every space, creating an environment that reflects His peace and love.
Creating a Spiritually Nurturing Home
Fill your home with reminders of God’s Word. Whether through scripture on the walls, worship music, or family prayers, making God the center of your home will create a spiritually nurturing environment where His peace can dwell.
5. Giving God Your Mind
Our minds are often where worry and fear take root. Surrendering your mind to God means renewing it daily with His Word and trusting Him with your thoughts.
How to Meditate on Scripture to Renew Your Mind
Meditating on scripture is a powerful way to surrender your mind to God. Romans 12:2 reminds us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. Meditate on Philippians 4:8, which encourages us to focus on whatever is true, noble, and pure.
Practical Steps to Guard Your Mind Against Anxiety
When anxious thoughts arise, pause and pray. Ask God to fill your mind with His peace and remind yourself of scriptures that declare His faithfulness. Over time, this practice will help you build a mindset of trust and surrender.
Reflection Question: What scriptures can you meditate on to help renew your mind daily?
6. Giving God Your Friendships
Friendships are a gift from God, but they can also be a source of stress if we try to control or manage them out of fear. Surrendering your friendships to God means seeking His guidance in your relationships.
Why Prayer is Essential for Healthy Friendships
Pray for your friends, asking God to strengthen your relationships and guide them according to His will. Proverbs 27:17 tells us:“Iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
How to Trust God with Conflicts in Friendships
When conflicts arise, instead of trying to control the situation, bring it to God in prayer. Trust that He will provide wisdom, understanding, and healing in His perfect timing.
Reflection Question: How can you invite God into your friendships today?
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Trusting God When the Answer is “No”
Sometimes, surrendering to God means accepting that His answer might be “no” or “wait.” Yeshua prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane for the cup to pass from Him, yet He surrendered to God’s will (Luke 22:42). Trusting God’s “no” deepens our reliance on His perfect plan.
Reflection Question: How have you responded to God’s “no” in your life, and how can you trust Him more in these moments?
Recognizing God’s Timing
Giving it to God involves trusting His timing. Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.” Trusting God’s timing requires patience, but it reminds us that His plans unfold perfectly, even when we can’t see it.
Reflection Question: In what areas of your life do you need to trust more in God’s timing?
Bible Verses for Letting Go and Letting God Handle It
- 1 Peter 5:7: “Cast all your worries on Him, for He cares for you.”
- Proverbs 16:3: “Commit whatever you do to Adonai, and your plans will succeed.”
- Philippians 4:6-7: “Do not be anxious about anything—but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the shalom of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Messiah Yeshua.”
- James 4:7 : “Therefore submit to God. But resist the devil and he will flee from you.”
- Psalm 55:23: “Cast your burden on Adonai, and He will sustain you. He will never let the righteous be shaken.”
- 1 Corinthians 10:13: “No temptation has taken hold of you except what is common to mankind. But God is faithful—He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can handle. But with the temptation He will also provide a way of escape, so you will be able to endure it.”
- Philippians 4:19: “My God will fulfill every need of yours according to the riches of His glory in Messiah Yeshua.”
- 2 Timothy 1:7: “For God has not given us a spirit of timidity but of power and love and self-discipline.”
- Matthew 6:33: “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”
These verses all come from the Tree of Life Version (TLV) and emphasize trusting God and surrendering your worries to Him. I encourage you to look up these verses in your favorite translation (or use these) and commit them to memory!
My Final Thoughts: Trusting God in All Areas of Life
We are called to give it to God in all areas of our lives. By surrendering daily, we experience the peace that only He can provide. Philippians 4:7 promises that God’s peace will guard our hearts and minds in Messiah Yeshua.
Reflection Question: How can you begin practicing daily surrender to God?
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Tree of Life (TLV) – Scripture taken from the Holy Scriptures, Tree of Life Version*. Copyright © 2014,2016 by the Tree of Life Bible Society. Used by permission of the Tree of Life Bible Society.
NASB – “Scripture quotations taken from the NASB. Copyright by The Lockman Foundation“
Tanakh: a New Translation of the Holy Scriptures According to the Traditional Hebrew Text. Philadelphia: Jewish Publication Society, 1985
Congrats for the new job to your hubby, God will answer our prayer in a mysterious way, what we pray for will come true sooner or later, sometime the answer is the best one more than what we expected.
Amen Ina!!!
This is so true! My husband and I were in a very similar job search situation. We didn’t end up near home, but I do believe we ended up exactly where we were meant to be, and I trust His plan. I still have to remember that though, now that we are freshly planted in Georgia and unpacking boxes. lol.
Yes packing is never fun! LOL Congratulations on the move!!!
Nicely said.
Thank you!
I needed to read this one more time and it blessed me today even more than last time. I love your last quote so much that I tweeted it so others could enjoy too! 😉
Thank you so much Shan!!!
This is such a great reminder. I like to be in control–or feel like I am, at least–so sometimes trusting is easier said than done.
Thank you Crystal!!
God had a plan for you! There was a reason all of the interviews didn’t work out! I’m so glad your path took you back home to Connecticut! It sounds like you will be really happy there! I pray you have a safe move! Take care!
Thank you Sarah!!
Congratulations on the new chapter in ya’lls life!
Thank you Jasmine!! We couldn’t be happier!!
“We want Jesus to take the wheel but we want to navigate.”
Oh my goodness yes. This is such a sticky point of life. Thank you for the reminder to surrender to Jesus.
Thank you Bailey!!
Letting God have control is hard for me. I tend to move fast, and God doesn’t seem to have the same pace. Many times I find myself making a move and then looking back over my shoulder to check and see if God is coming along. However, when walking through difficult circumstances, it is entirely different. I take every step with Him leading. Now I need to get it right all of the time.
Maree
I tend to run out ahead myself. I have had to really focus on those times and make sure I follow instead. Thank you for sharing that!
So helpful.
Thank you!