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The Power of Prayer – Intentional Prayer or Kavanah

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Do you find that your prayers sometimes seem to fall flat? Do you feel like you just go through the same motions day after day, week after week without feeling that connection? The power of prayer can feel lost on us when our minds wander due to a disconnect in our prayer time. Learn how to prayer with intention and meaning and foster that relationship with Adonai that He intends for you to have; learn about kavanah!

Your Prayer Life is Like Tending a Garden

This weekend I spent a lot of time gardening. We are building a greenhouse so in the meantime I have seedlings growing in containers all over my back deck until they can be moved into their permanent homes.

I planned out what I wanted to plant, I bought the seeds and planted them. I tended to them and cared for them and now they are thriving as seedlings and growing quite well! So I expect to have a great harvest from them before too long.

But what if I had planted these seeds and just left them? What if I hadn’t tended to them or nurtured them? Sure, some may have grown in spite of that but they would have died off fast enough.

Prayer is much like that!  

The Bible displays the power of prayer in the fact that, apart from the Psalms, there are 140 references made to prayer. In many of these cases, the Bible also gives us the words they spoke in prayer. It is THAT important to the Lord!

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The Power of Prayer is Found in Kavanah

I am a Jewish believer so I attend synagogue each week. My husband is non-Jewish so we also attend church. Both of us attend each!

In synagogue we follow a prayer book known as a Siddur and we pray Shabbat prayers that are being prayed all over the world by Jewish people in every nation on earth. Not only that, but we are enjoining ourselves to our ancestors who prayed these same prayers for millenia.

So how do you pray the same prayers every week, every Festival, and for many every day multiple times a day without losing their meaning?

And that is what I want to talk to you about today. I want to talk to you about intentional prayer.

In Hebrew, this is known as kavanah and it means to pray with intent and mindfulness.

You see, praying liturgical prayers isn’t what keeps you from closeness with Adonai any more than reading the same verses from the Bible over and over disconnects you. What disconnects you is a lack of intention and mindfulness.

My Morning Prayer Time

I will give you an example from my own prayer time.

I went to great measures to protect that time with my Abba and make sure I did it before work or duties at home kept me from it.

But what I found happening was that I would sit and pray and my mind would become downtrodden because it had this list of things I needed to do that morning for work or for the house.

Rather than coming to the Lord with a fresh mind and clear intent, I was coming heavy laden with a to-do list for the day.

I had made prayer time a religious act that had to be done no matter what, even if I had tasks hanging over my head.

I was failing to enjoy my time with Abba and rather I was feeling obligated to it. My mind was elsewhere through no fault of my own. I have anxiety and that is just what it does when I have things on my plate.

When I first wrote this post, I said I used to try to get my work done first but then I soon realized that many times I was allowing the day to get ahead of me instead of me getting ahead of the day. My prayer should come before all else and praying the way my ancestors prayed had allowed me to do that.

By starting my day off by thanking the Lord before I even get out of bed in the morning, just for allowing me the opportunity to have another day to live meaningfully, I am giving the firstfruits of my day to Him.

Then I spend time just sitting and focusing, preparing for prayer. In doing that, I also give Him all my responsibilities for the day and ask Him to take them off my shoulders so I can spend this time with Him. I don’t rush headlong into prayer. I stop and lay my burdens down first. I go to Him with purpose and with intention, as though I am approaching the King because that is who He is!

It has made a HUGE difference. 

I now have this peaceful time with Him where I can pray with kavanah and be fully present with Him. The day will always be there. Work will always be there. 

The Power of Prayer – Being Present and Mindful

The words you say are not what disconnects you. It is the meaning and intention, the attentiveness behind them, or lack thereof, that connects you or disconnects you.

Praying from the Siddur does not mean we don’t pray other prayers or speak to Adonai in a personal way. We just enjoin the two.

We prepare before prayer by focusing on Him and understanding we are about to approach our Abba, our father. Each word is said with love and awe and respect and praise.

Maimonides said “The mind should be freed from all extraneous thoughts and the one who prays should realize that he is standing before the Divine Presence.” (Hilkhot Tefilah – Laws of Prayer)

Each word of the Shema is said with mindfulness of Him and His greatness.

Prayer is a conversation we have with our Abba! The power of prayer is when it comes with listening as well as speaking.

You see, my garden when I tend to those seedlings, will go on to yield fruit. It will produce for me as I put into it. I will have a harvest. And our prayers and our relationship with Adonai does the same.

If we approach Him in relationship, if we nurture that relationship He has desired to have with us since the beginning of time, we too will produce fruit and reap a harvest of blessings.

The Power of Prayer Can Be Diluted By Rote Prayer Without Intention

Christians are not immune to this lack of mindfulness!

If you get up every day and praise the Lord in the exact same manner, repent of your sins in the same way with the same list, make intercession by reading off a list of names, and give thanksgiving for the same things, you too can run into praying rote prayers without meaning.

We can have our prayer list in front of us, the same list we have prayed over all week, and just read it off like a to-do list if we are not present and mindful of each and every name, each and ever need.

If we are just rushing to get through prayer so we can get to the dishes, we are not giving the Lord our time any more than an adult child is giving a parent their time just because they rush in with dinner for them and then rush back out.

Kavanah Gives More Power to Prayer

Kavanah gives us a prayer life that has deepness and meaning whether you are praying the same words spoken for generations or crying out to Him in a moment of need.

Praying intentional prayers and being in the moment in front of the mercy seat will give you a relationship with the Lord that will be deep and meaningful and yield much fruit.

Coming away from the pressures and obligations of the world allows us to enter that time with Him like I imagine Eden was, where you just walk with Him in the cool of the day without any concerns for the day to day.

How Do You Pray Powerful Prayers of Intention?

So how do you do that? How do you come away from the world and be fully present with the Lord? How do you pray liturgical prayers with kavanah, with mindfulness? How do you experience the power of prayer in fullness?

How Do You Pray Powerful Prayers of Intention?

Take a Moment to Focus on God

Ok wait a minute! We are about to pray! Isn't THAT focusing on God?

Well, yes...but HOW are you approaching Him? All this means is that sometimes, when we pull ourselves away from life, even from sleep, we should take a moment to fully grasp that we are coming into the presence of Adonai! We are approaching the throne of the Lord.

We can lose sight of that sometimes. We get into such a habit in prayer that we can lose the AWE of it.

So take a moment to remove yourself from whatever you had been doing prior and enter the Holy of Holies with awe and wonder.

Maimonides, the Jewish philosopher and Torah scholar also known as the Rambam, said that if a person finds they are distracted or confused, they must first regain their composure before praying!

Minimize Distractions

If you do not have a private place where you can go pray, at the very least minimize the distractions around you. Go into your car if you have to! Go for a walk!

This is your time with your Abba! If it is at all possible, spend it alone with Him.

I know this is difficult if you have littles but if you can get 5 minutes of focused, intentional prayer vs 20 minutes of the phone ringing and kids fighting, take the 5 minutes!

Prayer is not a matter of quantity but quality.

For Liturgical Prayer, Embrace Every Word

It is easy, if you are used to liturgy, to just read words you've read a thousand times. But stop and really absorb those words. Let them become part of your own personal prayer.

Just because Messianic Jews (or any Jews for that matter) pray from the Siddur, it doesn't mean we do not make each word meaningful to us individually and as part of Israel.

Learn the prayers and find the personal meaning of them for you. When I say the Shema, it means something to me personally as well as corporately. I fall in love with each and every word of the Amida.

Praying the Word - Make Every Word Living

We can also lose sight of that personal intention when we pray the Word. Any time we pray something that involves reading it is easy for our mind to disconnect from it and that includes praying the Word.

The enemy loves to distract us and when we read, especially without reading out loud, it is easy to gloss over things or for your mind to wander.

Have you ever read a page in a book and then felt like you didn't even see it? We can get that way with the Word too. It's ok...we ALL do it. I know I do...I am not so super-spiritual that I won't say I have read a chapter in the Bible and then wondered what I just read!

Make every word come to life for you! Each verse, stop and think about what that means to you. For any attributes of God you read, stop and thank Him for those attributes.

In Judaism, the Word of God is not only for reading. It is for study and it is for prayer. Jewish thought is that reading the Word out loud, letting the Word of the Lord emanate from our lips, is a form of worship. The Psalms in particular are used in such a way.

In fact, the Psalms make up a good number of prayers found in the Siddur, the Jewish prayer book.

Scripture is alive! Let it speak to you (and let it speak FROM you) by pausing and letting it seep into your heart!

Have you found ways to pray that help you to stay focused and mindful? Share in the comments!

To create your own War Binder, check out the Warrior Women – Creating a Custom War Binder for a Powerful Prayer Life from Woman of Noble Character!

And please visit my YouTube channel for a video on this topic of kavanah!

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  1. I wrote on prayer this week, too! I think praying and reading the Word distractedly or rotely is one of our most common problems. As you said, we all fall into this at some point–at many points. I love that prayer doesn’t have to be either liturgical OR off-the-cuff, but can be both if prayed with intention. I also love the idea of taking a moment before prayer and reminding ourselves just Who we’re talking to. God is our Abba Father, but also our king and the Lord of the universe. Thank you, Diane–so many good thoughts here.

  2. I must say that your post is so very interesting and meaningful to me this morning. I love learning new words, but the depth of meaning is what draws me in. You have done a beautiful job of clarifying each point and all meanings. I love this. Thank you.

  3. Diane, I like how you pointed out that praying the same prayers can be like reading the same Scripture. We know that can be fresh when we take it in. I enjoyed your thoughts on this.

  4. Thank you for teaching me about the word “kavanah”. I sometimes feel like a lot of my prayer is an ongoing conversation with God throughout the day. I think, like you, that I need to set some intentional, meaningful time aside each day when I am not thinking about a hundred other things to commune with the Lord. Waiting until you got your chored done worked for you. I think bedtime might work for me. Thank you for the nudge.

    1. Yes! Prayer should always be that ongoing conversation. I love the line from the song Let Us Pray by Steven Curtis Chapman: “Just because we say Amen doesn’t mean this conversation needs to end”…I think that is so perfect!

  5. I enjoyed reading your thoughts on prayer. I think you’re the first person who ever suggested getting your chores done first before seeking the Lord. You have given me lots to think about!

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